Updated Feb 27, My Wife dresses for bed each evening, she will choose a nightgown from a chemise to a full length silk gown or a teddy to sleep in. When she wears a gown she always wears panties, it is what she feels comfortable wearing. When she is in the mood, and … she is in the mood every morning she wakes me early and yes we make love. In terms of the panties she typically wears under her gowns they are typically tap panties in silk, though she has some sheer styles and other novelty styles with buttons that undo at the bottom or hooks that undo there when she wishes me to have access to her there. Years ago I purchased two pairs of crotchless sheer panties and she decided they were a bit rude so she never wore them. She alone decides what to wear and when, I buy her sleepwear but she decides what to wear.