Updated June 9, The unedited truth about anal sex as told by various men and women. From men that have anal sex with their wives, to guys that try it early on in the dating session, these stories capture the essence of the sex act. But every so often, you just wanna go play in the grass. With anal, I can go balls-deep without having to worry about hurting her. Some women like it and a lot of men are all about giving pleasure.